For leaders, and honest seekers
Something has shifted. The certainty that used to hold you no longer does. The questions won't quiet. And you can't talk about any of it in the places where you used to belong.
Spiritual life stops being something you inherit and becomes something you must inhabit.
Is this you?
You haven't walked away. But you've started to notice the gap between what you say you believe and what you actually feel on a Tuesday morning. Between who you are in public and who you are at 2 a.m.
That gap is not a problem to solve. It is an invitation to something both larger and more honest.
What this is not
You have likely already tried the sanctioned options. The question you're sitting with is different: “Who am I when I stop performing?”
Not a pastor
A companion who has walked the same ground
Twenty-one organizations. A full leadership career inside the system you are quietly questioning. Not an outsider theorizing about deconstruction.
Not a therapist
A guide trained in the interior life
Doctor of Ministry in Spiritual Direction. Extensive experience in Jungian depth work. Two perspectives that rarely appear together in one guide.
Not a performance coach
A presence that stays with the question
We do not rush tension toward resolution. We do not measure transformation in ninety-day sprints. We stay with what is real long enough for something honest to emerge.
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A sustained space to attend to your lived experience with God. We meet regularly, between one and four times a month. You bring what is honest: doubt, anger, longing, resistance, desire. Nothing is too small. Nothing is too large. Nothing is out of bounds.
Over time, people become less afraid of their own interior experience. That shift changes more than they expect.
Sliding scale · $75–$125 per session
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For leaders carrying decisions that affect more than themselves. We clarify the decision, examine the interior pressures around it, and discern what is true beneath performance, urgency, and expectation.
The goal is not perfect certainty. It is grounded clarity you can live inside.
$250 per session
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For partners who want to nurture a spiritual connection with each other. Rather than managing your differences, we learn to listen beneath them, and to accompany one another in them.
The work strengthens honesty. It often changes the quality of conversation in ways neither of you anticipated.
$200 per session · 12-session process
The approach
Most spiritual directors work from one tradition. Most coaches work from one framework. What I bring is an unusual convergence, one I didn't design on purpose, but that has proven, across years of sustained client work, to be exactly what this particular kind of transformation requires.
My clients are not broken. They are becoming. And the tools that help people become are not the same as the tools that help people adjust.
Jungian Depth Work
The interior architecture of the psyche is the terrain. Dreams, shadow, the persona you've built and the self beneath it: these are not metaphors. They are the actual landscape of the work.
Trauma-Informed Practice
Many of the questions my clients carry are not purely theological. They are lodged in the nervous system, in early formation, in the cost of belonging to systems that required self-erasure.
Classical Spiritual Direction
Rooted in a centuries-old tradition of attentive, unhurried accompaniment. The director's role is not to advise, but to help the directee hear what is already moving beneath the surface.
Free reflection guide
Not a quiz. Not a checklist. Five questions designed to help you locate yourself, where you actually are, not where you’re supposed to be.
Sent immediately. No follow-up pressure. Just a place to begin.
Send me the guide
Inside the guide: five honest questions
Begin here
There is no script. No sales pitch. Just a conversation, and whatever you’re carrying into it.
